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Solid advice. Strongly recommended! Men desire to chase us. Great book for Youth Group studies/Book Clubs! Women desire to be loved for more than just their body. No woman should settle for just " getting by ". The pressure to date in high school is insane and misleading. Clearly defines the difference between infatuation love and TRUE love. Confirms the value of saving sex for husband and wife. Second, why only ONE man will left your veil on your wedding day! Seconds after he claims all you are Solid advice. Strongly recommended! Men desire to chase us. Great book for Youth Group studies/Book Clubs! Women desire to be loved for more than just their body. No woman should settle for just " getting by ". The pressure to date in high school is insane and misleading. Clearly defines the difference between infatuation love and TRUE love. Confirms the value of saving sex for husband and wife. Second, why only ONE man will left your veil on your wedding day! Seconds after he claims all you are and will be as HIS WIFE ~ Forever. Parents, affirms the importance of praying for the spouce for EACH of your children. God created love with a purpose.. love is pure! I also promote " Women made New " Videos on youtube.com I will be reading this book again! God bless. U R worth waiting for!

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Jul 16, 2011 Monique rated it really liked it

This was a good read for anyone who is a spiritual person...And it helps us feel better about relationships and marriage, both males and females...I would recommend this for young adults and teens if they have a spiritual interest as it goes into concepts of abstinance and purity until marriage etc...However, if your a person who loves sex while being single and doesn't really beleive in the institution of marriage this book is definately not for you....But, all and all a solid read... This was a good read for anyone who is a spiritual person...And it helps us feel better about relationships and marriage, both males and females...I would recommend this for young adults and teens if they have a spiritual interest as it goes into concepts of abstinance and purity until marriage etc...However, if your a person who loves sex while being single and doesn't really beleive in the institution of marriage this book is definately not for you....But, all and all a solid read... ...more

Jan 15, 2018 Mariana rated it it was amazing

I was given this book by one of our youth ministers, and honestly, I didn't think I needed it. I mean, I was a freshman, single, and had been to many chastity talks. I knew my boundaries and I was strong in my morals. But this book changed my perspective on relationships forever, and I am so happy I read it when I did. You don't need to be Catholic to read and appreciate it.

Jun 04, 2013 Amelia rated it it was amazing

I am a Catholic Teen girl and this book helped me out amazingly reevaluating my last relationship I was in!!!! It really makes you think about what you want in your life and how to wait for sex until marriage!!!!

Self-Help/Inspirational books are probably my least favorite genre because more times than not the person who wrote their collection of tips and inspirations and got it published reveal themselves to be very self-righteous in their motivational tome - "just read my book and you'll be perfect just like me!" (Insert eye-rolling here) But, despite some annoying areas this book did offer some good things to think about and consider with regards to relationships and marriage. It also discusses at len Self-Help/Inspirational books are probably my least favorite genre because more times than not the person who wrote their collection of tips and inspirations and got it published reveal themselves to be very self-righteous in their motivational tome - "just read my book and you'll be perfect just like me!" (Insert eye-rolling here) But, despite some annoying areas this book did offer some good things to think about and consider with regards to relationships and marriage. It also discusses at length appropriate ways to preserve your purity for marriage and why this is so important in this modern age. I'll definitely let my girls read it-I even highlighted it and made notations. :-) ...more

Nov 16, 2013 Sarah rated it it was ok

For me, the book was good but for someone who already practices being pure the real home hitters didn't come until the last 40 pages about. But it was still worth reading for those pages and for the other odd tips, advice, and revelations.
For me, the book was good but for someone who already practices being pure the real home hitters didn't come until the last 40 pages about. But it was still worth reading for those pages and for the other odd tips, advice, and revelations.
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This isn't just "another typical purity book", it's so much more! I was utterly surprised with how amazing and Christ-centered this book was! I had heard many people talk about it throughout my years at my Christian high school, but I thought it would end up being like all the others. NEWSFLASH! It's not! I enjoyed this book so much and took it al to heart! I WISH high school me would've listen to all the people telling me to read it... it would have caused me to change how I went about some thi This isn't just "another typical purity book", it's so much more! I was utterly surprised with how amazing and Christ-centered this book was! I had heard many people talk about it throughout my years at my Christian high school, but I thought it would end up being like all the others. NEWSFLASH! It's not! I enjoyed this book so much and took it al to heart! I WISH high school me would've listen to all the people telling me to read it... it would have caused me to change how I went about some things with boys back then. I'm passing it along to two friends and my younger sister! I feel that every girl with a longing to honor Christ and serve Him with all her heart NEEDS to read this!

Chapter 20 was a HUGE hit for me! Don't get me wrong, I was able to relate to all the chapters and soak up TONS of knowledge. But some of my favorite quotes came from the second to last chapter:

"If we have been made by God and for God, then our lives will not make sense apart from Him. If we lose sight of our origin, we'll miss our destiny. We're made for more than this world can offer" (p.273)

"one's soulmate is only visible to a person who is living in the will of God" (274).

"keep your eyes on heaven rather than earth ... You won't miss 'the one' if you keep your eyes on Christ. He won't let it happen" (275).

"Jesus Christ did not die on a cross in order to give us more rules to follow. He died in order to save us and to obtain for us the graces necessary to love as we were created to love ... Indeed, God has given us laws. He will be our judge. But in the end we will be judged by a God who is love, on our willingness to reflect His love" (276).

"In your prayer time, don't seek spiritual feelings or emotional experiences. Seek God" (282).

The last paragraph of this chapter (chapter 20) is the best thing I've ever read! It moved me to tears! I would type it out, but it's kinda long and I want everyone to read the book to find out what it says :)

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This book is the most amazing book i have ever read. All girls should invest in reading this.

Jun 20, 2013 Emily rated it it was amazing

Will make you proud to be a Christian woman!

Jun 09, 2016 Katie rated it liked it

I saw this at church when they were giving out free books and I chose this one. It was decent and pretty well written.

Jul 28, 2011 Lindsay Wilcox rated it really liked it

I spent the day today after-Christmas shopping with my mom and sister. I don't see my family very often since they almost all still live in Maryland, so I try to make myself available to them as much as I can when we're together. It seems appropriate for a season like the Christmas season, when we celebrate the birth of Jesus into his human family and the Holy Family as a group (this year, on Dec. 30). Being around family and friends makes me acutely aware of my in-between state in life, though. I spent the day today after-Christmas shopping with my mom and sister. I don't see my family very often since they almost all still live in Maryland, so I try to make myself available to them as much as I can when we're together. It seems appropriate for a season like the Christmas season, when we celebrate the birth of Jesus into his human family and the Holy Family as a group (this year, on Dec. 30). Being around family and friends makes me acutely aware of my in-between state in life, though. I'm not married or even dating anyone, and my youngest sibling is 15, so it's extra awkward when my mom gets excited by evidence of Santa's arrival on Christmas morning. She'll have a great time when grandchildren come, but I don't know when that will be.

If you're anything like me, a Catholic 20-something struggling to navigate the gap between your childhood family and the family you may one day build, you can appreciate the lonely, out-of-place feeling that often surfaces this time of year. As Catholics, we are called to practice chastity, grow in holiness, and seek godly spouses, but the specifics can be difficult to understand. How to Find Your Soulmate Without Losing Your Soul: 21 Secrets for Women is the latest offering from Jason and Crystalina Evert, noted chastity speakers associated with Catholic Answers. Jason's first book, If You Really Loved Me, changed my life when I read it in college. I've reread it since then, but that book is aimed toward a younger audience. Thankfully, as Jason has grown in age and wisdom with his wife (whom he met because they were both chastity advocates!) and four young children, his writing has grown as well. He is now reaching out toward people like me, those who know that there must be something better than the hook-up culture. There is, and this book begins to unpack the alternative.

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Belief + doubt = sanity (Barbara Kruger), but belief + trust = faith.

This was given to me by one of my youth leaders back home several months ago, but I didn't pick it up until after I went on a retreat a couple weeks ago. At this retreat I had an epiphany, and as I wanted it to stay, I decided to give this book a go.

I can't help but admit I'm a little embarrassed by reading this. It's not only a religious self help book, but it's a religious self help book on finding a "soulmate." Oh please. B

Belief + doubt = sanity (Barbara Kruger), but belief + trust = faith.

This was given to me by one of my youth leaders back home several months ago, but I didn't pick it up until after I went on a retreat a couple weeks ago. At this retreat I had an epiphany, and as I wanted it to stay, I decided to give this book a go.

I can't help but admit I'm a little embarrassed by reading this. It's not only a religious self help book, but it's a religious self help book on finding a "soulmate." Oh please. But to be honest... I'm glad I read it. I urge others to read it as well. It won't hurt. Of course I rolled my eyes at a few things I disagreed with; to be a woman of faith and science is hard, for those two things don't always go. But all in all, the general message is a great one, and this read brought up some interesting points. I'm definitely going to give them a thought instead of pushing them to the back of my head and forgetting about them. What I really liked was a passage near the end, and to all my liberal minded friends, I want you to mull this over before you look down upon those more conservative than you. "If a woman dreams of being a single professional, God bless her. If she dreams of being married at home with eight kids, God bless her. True feminine liberation is giving her the freedom to choose for herself without looking down upon her goals."

On a side note, I think the timing of this read is noteworthy. It's the day after Valentine's Day, and the two year anniversary of my own spiritual conversion.

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Oct 01, 2011 Larissa Pamen rated it it was amazing

The book is very interesting, so far.
The language is easy and straightforward.
I am a Christian and it resonates very deeply in my heart.
I also feel that young ladies who are not necessarily Christian and spiritual can also read this book, because it will make you re-examine your life choices in regards to sex,men, etc.
It helped me in a time of my life where I was very depressed after a bad breakup and needed to re-examine what I wanted in a relationship and how I could hopefully weed out the pe The book is very interesting, so far.
The language is easy and straightforward.
I am a Christian and it resonates very deeply in my heart.
I also feel that young ladies who are not necessarily Christian and spiritual can also read this book, because it will make you re-examine your life choices in regards to sex,men, etc.
It helped me in a time of my life where I was very depressed after a bad breakup and needed to re-examine what I wanted in a relationship and how I could hopefully weed out the people with whom I couldn't have a future with. I happily say that I have now been married for 6 years and intend to share this book with my daughter and nieces.
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I am a very spiritual person and this book has some good points but the way they refer to being "pure" makes me want to vomit. I definitely agree that the expected sex on the 1st-3rd date makes building a lasting relationship very challenging and people should take some time to actually get to know one another before they make a physical commitment but overall, this book made me want to throw it in the trash and the only reason I haven't is because my mother gave it to me. I find the language ju I am a very spiritual person and this book has some good points but the way they refer to being "pure" makes me want to vomit. I definitely agree that the expected sex on the 1st-3rd date makes building a lasting relationship very challenging and people should take some time to actually get to know one another before they make a physical commitment but overall, this book made me want to throw it in the trash and the only reason I haven't is because my mother gave it to me. I find the language judgmental and the "truths" they claim are based off an archaic religious doctrine. ...more

Nov 29, 2012 Lauren rated it it was amazing

Amazing book! I really enjoyed this read and was amazed at how clearly things were layed out in this book, as well as how relatible it was. I am in my 20s, but I still enjoyed this book, though I do feel like it is definitely geered more towards teens, it doesn't address many of the dating and relationship aspects that relate to those outside of their teen years. Amazing book! I really enjoyed this read and was amazed at how clearly things were layed out in this book, as well as how relatible it was. I am in my 20s, but I still enjoyed this book, though I do feel like it is definitely geered more towards teens, it doesn't address many of the dating and relationship aspects that relate to those outside of their teen years. ...more

Dec 22, 2012 Nicole rated it really liked it

This was a great book! I would recommend that you read it in a group because I got a lot out of it by being in a book discussion with others. Even though it's aimed at women, there are things in it that men could benefit from as well. This was a great book! I would recommend that you read it in a group because I got a lot out of it by being in a book discussion with others. Even though it's aimed at women, there are things in it that men could benefit from as well. ...more

God changed my heart through this book. I HIGHLY recommend reading this before, after, and/or during ANY sort of romantic relationship you are in. Perhaps, if I had read this six months ago, things would have been different. SO eye opening. Truly written by grace through the Everts. God bless them.

Nov 12, 2020 Lee rated it did not like it

Had to read this for senior year theology class and let me tell you as a queer agnostic this book is one of the biggest pieces of trash I've ever consumed, second only to theology of the body. Literally the idea that every woman, EVEN Christian women, fit into a perfect box as described is so stupid, especially when they shame people who don't. The authors are clearly basing their ideas on straight, upper/middle class, unquestioning, and predominantly white experience and it just doesn't click f Had to read this for senior year theology class and let me tell you as a queer agnostic this book is one of the biggest pieces of trash I've ever consumed, second only to theology of the body. Literally the idea that every woman, EVEN Christian women, fit into a perfect box as described is so stupid, especially when they shame people who don't. The authors are clearly basing their ideas on straight, upper/middle class, unquestioning, and predominantly white experience and it just doesn't click for anyone who doesn't fit perfectly into those boxes. Maybe don't give this to a young female family member who is probably already questioning her faith because, I'll be frank with you, most Christian literature only serves to make people less faithful. (Sources? 3 out of my 155 person catholic school class graduated as atheists) ...more

I'm actually not Catholic and most of my friends are not religious, but I'm going to make every single one of them read this book. My sister-in-law, who was Catholic once (and uses this book in her Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints lessons), lended it to me to read. I was like "What? Chastity? Is that how you feel about me?" Girl, before I was even halfway through I ordered my own copy to keep for when I have daughters. I can't praise this book enough. I've never felt so understood, an I'm actually not Catholic and most of my friends are not religious, but I'm going to make every single one of them read this book. My sister-in-law, who was Catholic once (and uses this book in her Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints lessons), lended it to me to read. I was like "What? Chastity? Is that how you feel about me?" Girl, before I was even halfway through I ordered my own copy to keep for when I have daughters. I can't praise this book enough. I've never felt so understood, and so supported. It doesn't matter how much or how little dating experience you have, READ IT. ...more

Feb 01, 2014 Meg rated it really liked it

It was a good book, but more geared to pre-teens and teens (those under the age of 19) who have been in destructive relationships rather than those who are looking for a more enlightened approach to developing relationships with others. I would have preferred if there was more elaboration on the importance of friendships and more advice and relatable stories for those who are in their early to late twenties.

Oct 12, 2013 Annabelle rated it really liked it

How to Find Your Soulmate Without Losing Your Soul is a beautiful book for woman of faith. In it I found comfort for overcoming my past and ways to do so. It helped to unravel why the relationships of my past were never truly solid and to give me an entirely new perspective of not simply dating but life.

May 28, 2013 Monica Wehbe rated it it was amazing

By far the best book I've ever read. I could relate to many stories and experiences. This is how I want to lead my life. It's a life changing book. Good to re-read every now and then, I strongly recommend it. By far the best book I've ever read. I could relate to many stories and experiences. This is how I want to lead my life. It's a life changing book. Good to re-read every now and then, I strongly recommend it. ...more

Feb 02, 2014 Angela Good rated it it was amazing

This book should be required reading for every high school girl...and then read Gannon college and post-college. The Everts share their hearts and give Godly counsel regarding singleness. AMAZING! INSIGHTFUL! AND A BEAUTIFUL GIFT FROM GOD!!!

Jan 01, 2012 Caroline rated it it was amazing

It is a very good book for girls who do not understand exactly what they are doing romantically.

Apr 08, 2012 Laura C rated it it was amazing

Great book. Really makes you appreciate each point in your life and look to God at all times!

Jun 28, 2012 Brittany rated it it was amazing

I extremely enjoyed this book. It changed my view of how I look at dating. It is a book every girl should read, hopefully before she starts dating.

Jan 20, 2013 Missy marked it as to-read

Saw his presentation November 8th! Can't wait to read his book! Saw his presentation November 8th! Can't wait to read his book! ...more

Jason Evert has spoken on five continents to more than one million people about the virtue of chastity.

Jason earned a master's degree in Theology, and undergraduate degrees in Counseling and Theology, with a minor in Philosophy at Franciscan University of Steubenville. He is a frequent guest on radio programs throughout the country, and his television appearances include Fox News, MSNBC, the BBC,

Jason Evert has spoken on five continents to more than one million people about the virtue of chastity.

Jason earned a master's degree in Theology, and undergraduate degrees in Counseling and Theology, with a minor in Philosophy at Franciscan University of Steubenville. He is a frequent guest on radio programs throughout the country, and his television appearances include Fox News, MSNBC, the BBC, and EWTN.

After speaking solo for several years, he teamed up with Crystalina, and the two married in 2003.

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"When a man loves a woman, he has to become worthy of her. The higher her virtue, the more noble her character, the more devoted she is to truth, justice, and goodness, the more a man has to aspire to be worthy of her." — 9 likes

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